(wow) Words Of Wonders Level 165 Answers – Start marking “How to Stay Home While It Sinks: A Gentle Approach to Cleaning and Organizing” as a must-read:
Staying Home During Drowning will introduce you to six life-changing principles that will revolutionize the way you approach home care—no endless to-do lists. This compassionate guide, presented in 31 Daily Thoughts, will help you get rid of the shame and fear you feel about home care. In it you will learn: · How to change your perspective on caring tasks f How to Stay Home When You Drown will introduce you to six life-changing principles. This compassionate guide, presented in 31 Daily Thoughts, will help you get rid of the shame and fear you feel about home care. Inside, you’ll learn: How to shift your perspective on caring tasks from moral to proactive How to stop negative self-talk and shame about caring tasks How to give yourself permission to rest even when things aren’t done How to to take care of your space Motivate you… more
(wow) Words Of Wonders Level 165 Answers
I am a deep believer in letting go of shame*, especially when it comes to families. There are many reasons why housekeeping eludes you, and being ashamed of it is unnecessary and counterproductive. I know this deeply and truly about others. It is more difficult for me to apply these beliefs. How to Stay Home When Drowning: 31 Days of Compassionate Help is too short, and it’s on Kindle Unlimited if you have it. I recommend it if you struggle to shake off shame, especially when it comes to homework, which I’m a firm believer in. There are many reasons why housekeeping eludes you, and being ashamed of it is unnecessary and counterproductive. I know this deeply and truly about others. It is more difficult for me to apply these beliefs. How to Stay Home When Drowning: 31 Days of Compassionate Help is too short, and it’s on Kindle Unlimited if you have it. I recommend it whether you struggle with care tasks or not. Even if you’ve never had problems washing dishes, you know someone who has. Either way, removing the moral judgment of cleanliness will benefit you or someone you care about now or in the future. The 6 pillars of Davies’ struggle are: Care is morally neutral Rest is a right, not a gift You deserve grace no matter what your activity level You can’t save the rainforest if you’re depressed Shame is the enemy activism Good is perfect From page 11, Davies for cleaning up a cluttered space without overloading it Offers concrete strategies. She keeps her chapters short and makes her points clear about the moral neutrality of doing the laundry, finding your compassionate voice, and developing interpersonal skills. She advocates replacing the ethical view of cleanliness with a functional one: the goal of cleaning is not to create a perfect, clean space, the goal is to have a functional space. Having a clean sink all the time won’t yield much at the end of your life, but when you start cooking it helps a lot to have a sink that isn’t full of dirty dishes. I bring this up because a few years ago I promised myself to end each day with an empty, clean sink and a clean counter. I like to start the day with a clean kitchen. The pandemic has challenged him wonderfully. I go to fewer places and fewer people in my space, so why is it so hard to keep it clean? Focus and energy. It’s hard for me to concentrate on anything, so I get more tired at the end of the day because it takes me longer to do something. I didn’t realize I was letting the shame build until I started reading How to Stay Home When I’m Drowning. She repeatedly reiterates that shame is a dangerous motivator, an unnecessary burden, and one that can cause further harm. In addition to encouraging us to take the shame out of taking care of our physical space and our bodies, she encourages us to treat rest as a right, not a reward. If we have the right to rest whenever we want, we will not rest in shame and the quality of our rest will be better. It distinguishes between rest and sleep. Relaxation is the activity you do while you are aware that helps you recharge. It is as much a right as sleeping. You don’t exist to maintain a space of static perfection. Hygiene features exist for one reason only… to make your body and space functional so you can easily experience the joys this world has to offer. Although Davis doesn’t talk about naps as resistance, I want to draw your attention to The Nap Ministry. Nap Ministry was founded by Tricia Hersey, a black woman, to advocate for naps as an act against capitalism and white supremacy. Given the history of white women supporting social justice movements started by black women, I want to see the work of The Nap Ministry and ensure that Hersey’s leadership is respected. Through the book and on her website and TikTok, Davis offers additional resources. I like the mindset of approaching tasks from a functional perspective. Taking the shame out of looking after your home and yourself, you get enough space, ask for help and rent it. The funny thing is, my housekeeper and I have been talking over the past few months about how hard it’s been to clean it up. She suggested that if it was safe, we could hire someone to deep clean the house and come back for maintenance. This idea brought a lot of guilt and shame and I guessed a little. She pointed out that I would suggest the same to a friend in the same situation. she’s right It takes practice, and it’s practice that I clearly need. …more
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Simple and super short, but packs a lot of inspiration into a small space. A simple rephrase – “housework is not a moral issue” has already helped my mental health.
It increases to 5 stars when the book hits my neck. Quote to prove it: “If you consider care tasks ethically, the motivation to complete them is often shameful. When everything is in place, you will not feel like a failure. often ashamed. Want to be relaxed because tasks caregiving is never done, and you treat the rest like a reward. While I don’t struggle with the care and chores, I won’t follow her suggestion up to 5 stars, for the book stuck in my neck Quote to do: “If you consider chores of caring as morals, it is often a pity When everything is in place, you don’t feel like a failure. If you complete caregiving out of shame, you will probably also get rid of shame because caregiving never ends and you see rest as a reward. While I don’t struggle with care and housework and may not follow your suggestions, I found this book helpful in my unhealthy relationship with productivity. I appreciate the radical perspectives she brought on how boredom does not exist and that caring tasks are morally neutral. Listening to the audiobook is like a loving hug! …more
As an autistic person, my life consists of rules about “how to be a person”. It’s the only way to understand the world. However, it made me consider everything I did (or failed to do) as good or bad. I never thought that not having a spotless home made me a dangerous person. Basically, not clean = bad person, bad adult, failure. This book was a full 180 from that. Doing laundry doesn’t make you a bad person, it literally has no moral value. Caregiving Tasks Ethically Neutral As an autistic person, my life consists of the rules of “how to be a person.” It’s the only way to understand the world. However, it made me consider everything I did (or failed to do) as good or bad. I never thought that not having a spotless home made me a dangerous person. Basically, not clean = bad person, bad adult, failure. This book was a full 180 from that. Doing laundry doesn’t make you a bad person, it literally has no moral value. Caregiving functions are morally neutral. Right
